Do you feel like you’re failing at the law of attraction?

When Paulie started at Enchanted Life U, almost five years ago, she was going, going, going. Her manifesting to-do list was a mile long. And most days she felt like she was failing.

She felt like she was failing because she never got the list “done” for the day. No matter what she did, she thought she needed to do more in order to “make it happen”. Her dreams seemed far away. She was stressed and anxious most of the time. And there was the pressure of a ticking clock she put on herself. 

When you want to manifest something, it feels like a good idea to do every technique you’ve ever heard about manifesting everyday. It seems like you should be visualziing what you want every free moment you have. It feels like you need to move faster in order to get it all done. That rarely leads to successful manifesting results. It does lead to frustration, and feeling like you’re failing at using the law of attraction. 

It took some time for Paulie to get to this moment. Unwinding the stories you’ve told yourself about how to manifest and what all you have to do can take awhile to let go of. Trust that you can do less, takes time to build. 

Now that she’s here, Paulie knows three of the biggest manifesting tips are:

1. Slow down
2. Go deeper
3. Trust the process

1. Slowing down gives yourself space in between thoughts. You need space to become aware of what you are thinking. When you’re moving 100 MPH you can’t hear whether the thoughts in your head support what you want or are contributing to more of what you don’t want. When you’re doing a technique like scripting, slowing down also allows you to see more of what is happening inside your dream life. 
2. Going deeper allows you to see and connect to more of the beingness of your Future Self. The beingness is what supports your manifesting the most. Looking deeper into who your Future Self is and how their life operates gives you more opportunities to step into that life. This leads to faster manifesting.
3. Trusting the process makes you more of the person who is manifesting everything they want. When you trust the process and something seems like it’s not working right, you can sit back and know that it’s all part of creating what you want. Rather than questioning what you are doing wrong. Trust instead of questioning puts you in a space of manifesting rather than trying to manifest. 

I don’t have three quick tips for “how to” do any of the above. These three things will greaty improve your manifesting and there are no “quick tips” to do them better. They are things you simply have to start doing and grow as you allow your journey of manifesting success to unfold. 

 ***You can her Paulie talk about these keys here.***

While I don’t have quick tips, at Enchanted Life U the daily assignments help you implement all these things over time. If you’re ready to jump in and start manifesting more of what you want, let’s do it! We’ll start with Manifest $10K to build the foundation of manifesting and then work on your Future Self. You can start in our Pay After You Manifest program if that feels better than investing up front. Click here to get started. 

Written with love, intention and inspiration by Cassie Parks.