You have a pretty good life, with a good job, and great friends, but you just feel like something is missing, which doesn’t make sense.  What if there was a way to figure out what you want in life when it feels like something is missing?

I had a pretty good life and things I wanted, but I always felt like something was missing.  I just couldn’t make any sense out of why I felt that way.  The truth is, I didn’t really know what I wanted, and I didn’t really know how to figure it out either.   I spent years chasing after all the possibilities that I thought would get me closer to what I really wanted, even when I didn’t really know what that was.  

I got really good at knowing what I didn’t want.  I thought it would get easier to figure out what I did want by knowing what I didn’t want. I’ve had the experience of getting what I thought I wanted, and then still feeling like something was missing.   In the past, I wanted to be a personal trainer.  I got the certification, and did it for a while, but that wasn’t it.  I thought I wanted to do all the MLM’s, and I did quite a few, but they weren’t the answer either.   I thought I wanted a craft studio.  I opened one, got what I thought I wanted, but it wasn’t it either.  I’ve gotten many things that I wanted, but after I got them all, it still felt like something was missing.  Have you experienced this?

I’ve done many things over the years trying to figure it out.  I read all the self help books that I thought held the answers.  I made many pros and cons lists.  I’ve also just done nothing, because I didn’t know what to do.  All I knew was that with all the things I was doing, I still felt like something was missing.  Have you done any or all of these things? 

If I were to ask you, “what do you want?”, what would your answer be?  Do you know or would it be a list of all the things you don’t want?  I had to learn that there wasn’t a magic checklist on how to get what I wanted and not feel like something was still missing once I got it.  

Here’s the good news.  When you learn what you truly want, you realize that there wasn’t really anything missing, even though that’s how you felt.  

When I joined Manifest $10K and started focusing daily on what I wanted, I actually learned that what I truly wanted was different than what I thought it was.  There was no magic checklist, yet there was a process within the program that led me to gaining clarity.  Getting clear with my $10K list helped me get clarity and move me towards what I really wanted.  

I shared above about wanting a craft studio, and how I got it.  It was going through Manifest $10K where I gained the clarity I needed to know that I didn’t want the brick and mortar part of the studio.   What I did want was to be an artist.  This was huge for me!  I thought I wanted a craft studio because then I could justify being crafty and it was getting what I thought I wanted.  So, why did it feel like something was still missing?  Because I hadn’t become or allowed myself to be something rather than “get” something.  Becoming and allowing myself to be an Artist was really what I wanted, but thought I had to “get” a studio to be one.  This was so life changing, that I literally closed and moved my studio to my home within 30 days to be an Artist who could work from anywhere.

Now that I know how to tune into what I want and gain the clarity needed to move me towards it, my life is easier and everything is better.  I no longer feel like something is missing.  I have two businesses that I love, which are being an Abundance Facilitator and an Artist.  I have amazing relationships with all those in my life.  Plus, what I want just keeps coming and my life is more amazing than I could imagine.

A few tips:

• When you’re thinking about what you want, ask yourself how you will feel when you have it.
• Will you feel joy, happy, calm?  You fill in the feeling you want to feel.
• How you will feel when you have what you want is really a game changer to figuring out what you want in life.
• Go do things now that will make you feel those feelings today.
• You don’t have to wait for what you want to show up before you can feel that way.
• Your feelings will bring you more of what you want.
• You will spend less time trying to figure it all out

If you feel like something is missing and don’t know what it is, then I invite you to join me in Pay After You Manifest, where I guide you step by step through the same process I learned, and you manifest first and pay after.

Just click here to join today.

Written with Intention by Abundance Facilitator Kimberly