Do you want to feel worthy of having more than you already have? Three years ago, if you had asked me that question, I would have answered yes, but not because I believed it to be true. I would have said yes because mentally I thought I was worthy of more and could tell you all the reasons why I thought I was worthy of manifesting what I wanted. I just hadn’t become the person who was worthy of more and knew it. Rather sad and depressing that I didn’t believe that I was worthy of more.

Learning how to feel more worthy and manifesting more of what you want starts with the following: 

Changing your money story

Choosing and owning that your worthy

Being proud of yourself and building your self-worth.

Change Your Money Story. It all starts with changing your money story. We all have a money story, which isn’t your fault, it’s just a story you picked up by default as you were growing up, which is playing out in your current life. Knowing that you have a money story and choosing to change it is the first step in feeling worthy of more.  To learn more and identify your current money story, go to Identify Your Money Story.

I was a Money Chaser, which is someone who will pretty much do anything if they think it would make them money. They have started multiple businesses and have had hundreds of money making ideas that they started working on. Plus, they would spend money quickly to try and make more money. I couldn’t be worthy of more because I was constantly chasing ways to get more money, not knowing if I already had more. Not feeling worthy of more or having more was directly tied to my money story. Until I took out a blank sheet of paper to write a new money story. 

The good news is that you don’t have to fix your old story. Identify what your current money story is and then choose to take out a blank sheet of paper and write down what you want your new story to be, focusing on what you want more of.  What story would you write to open up space for you to have more than what you already have? 

Choose It & Own It. Being worthy is a choice. Each time you want more of something, you have to choose that you’re worthy of having it. It sounds simple, and it really is, yet you have to practice consciously choosing that “yes, you are worthy” of having more than you already do. Then you have to own it! Own that you're worthy of what you want just because you are. Oftentimes we want to justify or explain why we are worthy of something. When you own that you're worthy of it because you are, you become the person who is worthy of it. You don’t have to justify or explain why you’re worthy, you just are.

I wanted more freedom to do what I wanted, when I wanted. I manifested that, but when I got it, I freaked out. I didn’t know what to do with all this freedom that I created. I had to choose that I was worthy of what I created and own it.

Being Proud of Yourself & Self Worth. When you are proud of yourself you automatically increase your self worth. Yet you have to learn to get your value in new ways. When was the last time you were proud of yourself? How do you currently get your value? Feeling proud of yourself and how you currently get your value, in any area of your life effects feeling worthy of having more. 

I did many things that made me feel proud of myself and filled my self worth up in ways that felt good at the time. It wasn’t until I learned to get my value in new ways, that I felt more worthy of manifesting what I wanted. I used to show up as a mama bear when it came to my children, and I wore that like a badge of honor. When I chose to show up calm versus the mama bear, everything worked out much easier. I was proud of the calm person I was, and I experienced that situation in a way that increased my self worth in a better way. Being proud of yourself increases your self worth and feeling worthy of more than you already have.

Feeling worthy of having more than you already do is a continuous journey. Each time you want to feel more worthy and have more, you have to choose that you’re worthy of it. 

I didn’t get through this all on my own. I had a proven system with daily assignments that led me step by step to writing a new money story. I had a coach who taught me how to choose and own that I was worthy of all that I wanted, and reminded me when I would freak out that I created what I wanted, now I just had to be the person who knew she was worthy and own it. She also taught me to be proud of myself and find new ways to build my self-worth. 

Now that I have a new money story and feel more worthy of what I want, I am manifesting all that I want and so much more. I am getting paid to do what I love, which is being a coach and an artist. I get paid to do what I love and know that I am worthy of it and so much more. I create just to create and have so much more ease and freedom in my life to follow my passions every day.

If you want to feel worthy of more than you already have, I invite you to listen to my Year of Growth interview. In this episode Becoming Worthy of Manifesting What You Want on Manifesting Success Stories, you’ll hear more in depth how I learned to feel worthy of more and manifesting what I want.  

Written with Intention by Abundance Facilitator Kimberly