I know how it feels when everyone else seems to feel worthy, and you don't know how to feel worthy. It can feel very isolating and confusing, and it sucks.

I used to feel so confused when I saw all the people around me who had manifested these awesome things too. They just seemed to accept it and move on as if they were worthy of these things. I’d see a person receive something awesome like a great role in a show or getting proposed to, and they just took it in stride. It was so easy and natural to them to accept these big manifestations.

This was something I knew I needed to get good at if I wanted to manifest more in my life.

I knew, through all that I had already learned of Law of Attraction, that the life I had around me reflected back to me what I felt worthy of. I had a boyfriend who treated me very poorly with no compassion or flexibility or warmth, a job with no compassion or flexility or warmth, and a bank account that was very often overdrafted with no savings to speak of and never enough money to buy things I wanted. I didn’t like what I saw in the mirror, let alone what I saw in my life. I felt stuck in the level of worthiness I had created up to that point - I was stuck in my life.

I wanted to manifest more! I wanted to manifest a relationship and partner I loved, a career I loved that made me more than enough money, and a life I loved. To get more, I needed to become worthy of more. So how do I do that?

By learning how to hold space for the possibility of more.

It might sound overly simple that just by holding the space for the possibility is enough to feel more worthy, but it’s true. When you hold the space for more, you are holding / owning the space in your life for more. If it’s in your life, you are worthy of it. So by practicing the holding of space for more, you are being the person who is worthy of more.

This can look different for everyone. For me, I began stepping in to the person who had more on a daily basis, and getting comfortable with that. I wanted more money, so I practiced having more money. This meant when more than enough money showed up, I practiced having it in my bank account. I’d let it stay in my account for a period of time so I could get used to seeing those bigger numbers in my bank. I would wait to invest or spend it until it felt fully inspired / easy. 

I started saying no to things that didn't feel good, i.e. things that weren't worthy of the person I wanted to become.

Day after day, I made small choices that held the possibility of more. Sometimes that meant saying no to that cool concert because I wanted to practice seeing that extra $150 in my account, or saying yes to going to bed early because I wanted to practice being a person who had enough space in their life to get plenty of rest.

Eventually, through the practice of holding space for the possibility of more, I noticed my life was shifting around me! I manifested more money (3 savings accounts, loans paid off, and no more overdrafting my accounts), I manifested my soulmate (whom I just married at our dream wedding last week), I manifested my dream career (which is flowing beautifully), and I love the life that’s reflected back to me every day. I manifested more because I was becoming worthy of more.

So, when you feel isolated around people who seem to feel worthy of the stuff they have, remind yourself to keep showing up. Keep doing the work to better yourself, keep holding space for more manifesting, and you will feel worthy of what you've manifested, opening yourself up for more manfiestations.

If you want more support around feeling worthy, here’s a podcast episode I recorded at a time when I was learning how to level up my worthiness. Head over to  of https://www.manifestingsuccessstories.com/search/?q=vicki and listen to Episode #388.