Are you a pretty happy go lucky person, and you just think that life is what it is?  Underneath that happy go lucky persona, you really want more out of life, but you just don’t know how to get it.  You tell yourself that if you just keep being positive, good things could maybe happen.  Just be grateful for all that you do have while you’re waiting for more to come your way.  What if life could be better and you could have more of what you wanted?

I used to consider myself a pretty positive person, I mean if I kept being positive, eventually good things had to happen, right? I kept telling the Universe all that I was thankful for, thinking that it knew I wanted more good things to come my way.  I wanted more, but I didn’t know how to ask for it, other than being thankful.  I mean how could I ask for more of what I wanted if I wasn’t being grateful for all that I did have?

In all honesty, I wanted more, but I was afraid to ask!  There are so many reasons you could be afraid to ask for what you want, and I’m here to tell you today, those reasons don’t really matter.  You might think they do, but they don’t.  If you want to get more out of life, you have to ask for it!  It’s that simple.  

Now, before your brain gets all busy telling you all the reasons “why” you can’t ask for what you want, let’s give it some evidence that you do already ask for things you want. When you go to a restaurant, you look over the menu and you decide on what to order.  The server comes to the table and you tell them what you want.  Let’s say you’re ordering a steak, and you tell them that you want it medium rare, and you choose a salad and fries as your sides.  You literally just asked for what you want!  You practice daily asking for what you want, yet you probably don’t give yourself enough credit for doing so.

Now, you’re probably saying, well, that’s easy, I’m just asking for something that’s already on the menu.  Everything you want in life, it too is on the menu.  You just haven’t practiced asking for it.  Now that you’re aware that you have been asking for what you want, you get to practice asking for more of what you want.

How to practice asking for what you want:

1. What is one thing that you want that you could ask for today?  Start with asking for something “small” that you want.  It can be uncomfortable or scary asking for the “bigger” things at first. 
2. Now ask for it.  
3. Decide that it’s okay if you get a “no” when asking for what you want. One of the biggest reasons people don’t ask for what they want is because they already think the answer will be no.  Ask anyway!
4. Practice asking for what you want without explanation.  You’re allowed to want what you want, without justifying it.
5. Get really good at asking for the “small” things to build your confidence up to ask for the “bigger” things.
6. Keep practicing asking for what you want!  

I wanted life to be better and to get more of what I wanted. I too had to practice asking for what I wanted.  It took having a coach to learn how to ask for what I wanted.  I learned that I was allowed to want what I wanted.  I didn’t have to explain or justify why I wanted what I wanted.  I had to practice asking without explanation.  I got lots of no’s, yet the more I practiced, the more I got what I wanted.

One of my favorite stories about getting what I ask for is about my iPad Pro.  I told my husband I wanted the New iPad Pro, and he told me to manifest it.  That in my mind was my “no”.  I had all the reasons why I wanted it, and I really wanted to justify all the reasons, but I didn’t say anything.  I let it go for the time being, knowing that I still wanted it.  Then one day we were at Target and there was a salesperson for AT&T wireless.  To make a long story short, they had the newest iPad Pro, and I just asked my husband if we could add it to our new cell phone service.  To my surprise, as I was still learning and practicing asking for what I wanted, he said yes!  I got what I wanted, and it really was as simple as just asking for it.

When I found Manifest $10,000, I thought, well, $10,000 will definitely change my life.  By going through the program and doing daily assignments, my life did begin to change.  I was getting more of what I wanted. Things I had dreamed of for years, but was too afraid to ask for.  Now I know that life can be better, and it just keeps getting better and better.  The program was amazing, yet the best part was that it came with a coach.

By having a coach, and learning how to ask for what I wanted, I get more of what I want out of life.  It was scary in the beginning, I was afraid to ask, and yes, I had many reasons why I couldn’t.  I got lots of no’s, but I kept asking.  You too can get what you want out of life by asking for what you want.  I know that if you start practicing “ordering” what you want off the menu, you’ll get served what you order!  

Are you ready to get more out of life and ask for what you want?

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Written with Intention by Abundance Facilitator Kimberly